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Friends With Benefits: Is It Really Worth It?

If you are one of those people who likes to have fun without strings attached then you need to read this post. There's some crucial information right here and we will also talk about certain situations which you might need to know about. But even if you are just debating becoming friends with benefits with someone... You need to think about whether it's worth it or not. First of all, lot's look at the very obvious benefits when it comes to having someone that you can always hit up with a booty call. Pros For most people, it's the physical aspect. Orgasms are always nice. They make you stress-free and fill you up with happiness hormones that can have an effect on you for up to a couple of hours. How would you not want that all the time? Unfortunately, in most cases, only friends with benefits relationships are the only ones that can provide you with a lot of sex for a long period of time. If you get yourself a boyfriend or girlfriend then it's much di

How does dating work?

Dating is one of the first things you do in the beginning of a new relationship. Its core purpose is for the people to get to know each other more by spending time together, which is why you should involve talking in any activity you organize. You can always search for the most important things to know about partners on the internet, but the most obvious ones are humor, finances and their approach towards the relationship. Well, that's only my opinion. This phase usually tests compatibility, and it's the main reason for the fact that you need  to date (romantic relationships formed after friendship excluded). You need to pay attention to things you want from a partner that you might spend the rest of your life with. This way you can spare yourself time by getting rid of the bad boys and such. Oh, quick note for the youngsters: don't be afraid to date. It builds social skills and you can get the hang of it earlier. And don't be alarmed if you can't g

The new crush

There they are, the butterflies are doing the thing in your stomach again you know exactly why. It might be a new person in your life, or someone you've known for years, but this time the light is shining on them differently. Way differently. No matter who this person is, you have probably started wondering how you two would look together. You may have doubts or not, but if you aren't in a relationship currently then just make a go for it. The worst that could happen is rejection, which just prepares you for anything else. Best case: you have a date. The most important thing to do during this phase is to be yourself, BUT be your better self. It might be a bit of a lie to put on makeup and your best clothes. For some the lie might be paying attention, because otherwise they would just be on their phone. The fact is, if this phase lasts too long then you might even improve yourself a bit. And if it doesn't then your other half can easily ignore MINOR differences. M

What a relationship should be

The ideal relationship makes both halves feel better about most aspects of their lives, but this might not always be the case and it is not very realistic. Having a partner involves arguments and disagreements, which is quite obvious, as it happens in any relationship, not just the romantic type. But the way you handle it is the most important part. You've probably seen the post about "It's not you versus him, it's you two against the problem". This is still relevant and one of the best pieces of advice you can be given. But this is basically the only drawback, as having someone constantly be there for you in any situation can rarely be a problem. In an ideal relationship the partners accept and help each other. It's a symbiosis.