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Friends With Benefits: Is It Really Worth It?

If you are one of those people who likes to have fun without strings attached then you need to read this post. There's some crucial information right here and we will also talk about certain situations which you might need to know about. But even if you are just debating becoming friends with benefits with someone... You need to think about whether it's worth it or not. First of all, lot's look at the very obvious benefits when it comes to having someone that you can always hit up with a booty call. Pros For most people, it's the physical aspect. Orgasms are always nice. They make you stress-free and fill you up with happiness hormones that can have an effect on you for up to a couple of hours. How would you not want that all the time? Unfortunately, in most cases, only friends with benefits relationships are the only ones that can provide you with a lot of sex for a long period of time. If you get yourself a boyfriend or girlfriend then it's much di

The new crush

There they are, the butterflies are doing the thing in your stomach again you know exactly why.
It might be a new person in your life, or someone you've known for years, but this time the light is shining on them differently. Way differently.
No matter who this person is, you have probably started wondering how you two would look together. You may have doubts or not, but if you aren't in a relationship currently then just make a go for it. The worst that could happen is rejection, which just prepares you for anything else. Best case: you have a date.

The most important thing to do during this phase is to be yourself, BUT be your better self. It might be a bit of a lie to put on makeup and your best clothes. For some the lie might be paying attention, because otherwise they would just be on their phone.
The fact is, if this phase lasts too long then you might even improve yourself a bit. And if it doesn't then your other half can easily ignore MINOR differences. Minor. Please do not act like you're a completely different person, as this will lead to a lot of breakups.

First dates tend to be awkward. Prepare some topics. If the talking dies off you can just throw some in. Quick questions can save an entire date. Some of the most common ones are:
  • What's you favourite animal?
  • Do you play sports and/or exercise?
  •  What kind of music do you like?
And even if these don't work then you can always ask about their childhood.

This phase is the second hardest one of them all, so don't be alarmed if it feels like that.

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