If you are one of those people who likes to have fun without strings attached then you need to read this post. There's some crucial information right here and we will also talk about certain situations which you might need to know about. But even if you are just debating becoming friends with benefits with someone... You need to think about whether it's worth it or not. First of all, lot's look at the very obvious benefits when it comes to having someone that you can always hit up with a booty call. Pros For most people, it's the physical aspect. Orgasms are always nice. They make you stress-free and fill you up with happiness hormones that can have an effect on you for up to a couple of hours. How would you not want that all the time? Unfortunately, in most cases, only friends with benefits relationships are the only ones that can provide you with a lot of sex for a long period of time. If you get yourself a boyfriend or girlfriend then it's much di
At this point in your relationship everything is perfect and pink. Which is why it's easy to get lost in it and be disappointed later on, because "the spark disappeared". You need to see things clearly when you begin dating and think rationally.
But, mainly, you need to enjoy yourself, while dating. I might've come off as a strategist, talking about the matter, but the main point of dating is to get to know another human being that you may want to spend your entire life with. Experiment and learn your own ways.
1. Modesty
This is a key point in this phase. Cover yourself a little too much, leave something for the imagination. It grabs the attention of your partner more and they won't focus on your cleavage instead of talking with you.
Also, later on you will see every single inch of the other person, so keep the modesty as long as you can. Curiosity is your power.
2. Love letters
I don't get why people don't do this anymore. It's cute, romantic and so easy to do. It can include anything, for example: describing how it felt when you first met them, how much you enjoyed your first date, how awkward, but cute your first kiss was. And all you need to do is type it into a computer, choose a pinkish background with some hearts and flowers and print it. It takes literally 20 minutes to do.
3. Be yourself (+ a little extra)
Being yourself will help in the long run, because you won't need to change aspects of yourself later on, but the real you might be not enough. You might be lazy, sarcastic or rude, just by nature.
The usual "be yourself" method might not work. And I know this all too well. People lie and make themselves look extra good when they first start dating, and that's okay as long as you don't change the core parts of yourself. Act a little better than you actually are. It's fine.
4. Take your time
Leave the kissing to the end of your first date, don't get intimate right away and - for the love of god - don't hurry to the bedroom. Most couples break up because they got to know the physical parts of one another and it was enough for them. But if you learn about the physical and mental parts at the same time then what you will get is: actual fondness.
Love takes time.
5. Meet the parents
Yes, it's scary. Yes, it's awkward. But if you're the first one to initiate contact they will likely have a better impression of you than otherwise. This can often lead to the in-laws not being an irritating factor, rather a loved part of the family.
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