If you are one of those people who likes to have fun without strings attached then you need to read this post. There's some crucial information right here and we will also talk about certain situations which you might need to know about. But even if you are just debating becoming friends with benefits with someone... You need to think about whether it's worth it or not. First of all, lot's look at the very obvious benefits when it comes to having someone that you can always hit up with a booty call. Pros For most people, it's the physical aspect. Orgasms are always nice. They make you stress-free and fill you up with happiness hormones that can have an effect on you for up to a couple of hours. How would you not want that all the time? Unfortunately, in most cases, only friends with benefits relationships are the only ones that can provide you with a lot of sex for a long period of time. If you get yourself a boyfriend or girlfriend then it's much di
Some people go with the flow when choosing the partner - and that's perfectly fine, but when you have to decide whether your current significant other will be a part of your life forever or not, there's a way to go about it.
This checklist was put together to help you see things a bit deeper in the relationship, so that you can make the right call. It was designed to make people realize the problems that might arise later on and to see what they're worth in their partnership. Although, I have to warn you: there are times when these things don't apply and you should not throw away your relationship if you can't relate with every single point.
- Both of you know what the other one feels exactly
- There's peace (occasional arguments are nothing to worry about)
- No mind games
- You plan your future with him
- He's just as much a friend as a boyfriend
- He says "I love you" regularly
- You feel safe next to him
- He has goals
- Date nights aren't rare
- He doesn't stop flirting with you
- Your more self assured than before the relationship
- You don't want to let go of that special spark
- There's no acting, both of you act like yourselves
- You're proud of him
- He gets along with your parents
- You can share your feelings
- He makes you his priority
- He's loyal
- You don't get jealous easily
- He puts just as much energy into the relationship as you
- Both of you respect the other's boundaries
- He doesn't lie to you
- He doesn't keep secrets from you
- You can have your own free time
- He doesn't judge you
- Both of you can grow and learn because of your relationship
And now, the bonus round:
- Hugs from behind
- Forehead kisses
- Occasional appreciation via text/letter (because we love to keep them and reread them, duh?)
- Piggyback riding
- Small surprises
- Tickle fights
- Giving you hoodies
What do you think? Tell me in the comments or tweet at me.
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