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Friends With Benefits: Is It Really Worth It?

If you are one of those people who likes to have fun without strings attached then you need to read this post. There's some crucial information right here and we will also talk about certain situations which you might need to know about. But even if you are just debating becoming friends with benefits with someone... You need to think about whether it's worth it or not. First of all, lot's look at the very obvious benefits when it comes to having someone that you can always hit up with a booty call. Pros For most people, it's the physical aspect. Orgasms are always nice. They make you stress-free and fill you up with happiness hormones that can have an effect on you for up to a couple of hours. How would you not want that all the time? Unfortunately, in most cases, only friends with benefits relationships are the only ones that can provide you with a lot of sex for a long period of time. If you get yourself a boyfriend or girlfriend then it's much di

The Big Question: Who's The One?

This is probably the question which keeps people up at night if they are worried about their relationships. Who am I going to spend my life with? Will I ever meet that one person? Will they be perfect?




Well, first let me clarify: you do not need perfection. It gets boring after some time and you will feel your own imperfections as if they were worse than in reality. You will try to improve yourself with little to no success and it will drag you down.

But perfection is basically impossible to find anyway, because let's be honest, a perfect person simply can't exist.

You need someone that fits. Someone that completes you. A few common things between you two is all you need, after that the only thing that matters is proper communication.

But you were made to believe that there's one person that was made just for you.

I'm sorry to say, but that's incredibly false. The only thing that will make two people compatible is how they handle their disagreements.

If you have doubts tell them, if there's something wrong just say it and never keep your mouth shut when you feel as if something is becoming worse, because you can always fix it if you're willing to. The one should be the person you have patience for, so you can fix all the problems that arise.

So no, The One doesn't exist. What does is your willingness to be in a relationship with problems that you can fix, but only with teamwork and communication.

Look for someone that will go through hell to be with you, to endure any pain and suffering that might come with a relationship. Look for someone that has the guts to say when something's wrong and who is willing to to solve anything that might come up.

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