If you are one of those people who likes to have fun without strings attached then you need to read this post. There's some crucial information right here and we will also talk about certain situations which you might need to know about. But even if you are just debating becoming friends with benefits with someone... You need to think about whether it's worth it or not. First of all, lot's look at the very obvious benefits when it comes to having someone that you can always hit up with a booty call. Pros For most people, it's the physical aspect. Orgasms are always nice. They make you stress-free and fill you up with happiness hormones that can have an effect on you for up to a couple of hours. How would you not want that all the time? Unfortunately, in most cases, only friends with benefits relationships are the only ones that can provide you with a lot of sex for a long period of time. If you get yourself a boyfriend or girlfriend then it's much di
The main problem in relationships is usually the fact that the partners communicate their love differently. Currently when we talk about love languages, there are 5 that are mainly used.
People normally have 2 favourites of these, so you might want to experiment when you learn your other half's love language.
Gifts
For many of us, flowers and chocolate mean the most. Afterall, it signifies that at one point during the day our partner thought of us and wanted to make our day a little better. As long as it's not about money, this has one of the biggest emotional background.
Touch
The feeling of someone else's skin against yours can release tension and make the brain produce a happiness hormone. Which is why many people express how they feel about others by hugging, kissing or just simply caressing them.
Affirmation
Complimenting your other half may be the way to go for some. It can be anything from a simple "You look nice today" to "It was so nice of you to wash the dishes without me having to ask you". Praise is also a good way to make the other person do something more often, so use it wisely.
Acts
Some people appreciate acts over anything else. Simple things, such as running a bath for them can make them feel so much better about their entire day.
Quality time
And of course, the quality of the time you spend with them can be important as well. Instead of being on your phone constantly, pay attention to them. Listen to what they say, ask how their day was.
What do you think about love languages? Tell me in the comments or tweet at me!
Or check out the other posts about Communication.
What do you think about love languages? Tell me in the comments or tweet at me!
Or check out the other posts about Communication.
I just LOVE your blog! Straight up relationship blogging from a psychological perspective are difficult to find... I look forward to reading more.
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