If you are one of those people who likes to have fun without strings attached then you need to read this post. There's some crucial information right here and we will also talk about certain situations which you might need to know about. But even if you are just debating becoming friends with benefits with someone... You need to think about whether it's worth it or not. First of all, lot's look at the very obvious benefits when it comes to having someone that you can always hit up with a booty call. Pros For most people, it's the physical aspect. Orgasms are always nice. They make you stress-free and fill you up with happiness hormones that can have an effect on you for up to a couple of hours. How would you not want that all the time? Unfortunately, in most cases, only friends with benefits relationships are the only ones that can provide you with a lot of sex for a long period of time. If you get yourself a boyfriend or girlfriend then it's much di
(Remember: this post is useful if you have a male date and you're a woman.)
Let's admit: we love to go overboard when it comes to impressing someone from the opposite gender and there's nothing wrong with it, but it can very easily scare them away.
So here they are, the top 10 mistakes we make when trying to seduce men:
1. Too much perfume
Do NOT put too much perfume on. It's one thing that your date will get nauseated, but other people around you will too. The most amount of sprays is two. One on your neck, one on your wrist (then rub your wrists together so it sticks there as well).
2. Too much makeup
We've heard this one a lot, natural is better, blablabla... Thankfully, if you love makeup there's still a way to express yourself by using it and not go overboard. Today's trends dictate the "natural look". Which is technically still a lot if you think about it, but now it isn't as exaggerated. Just don't use too much foundation, it's very obvious.
3. Projecting bad experiences
Maybe your last relationship ended terribly, maybe it was because of your ex. This can lead to some issues, but they are personal ones and you have to keep that in mind, because when you project these bad feelings onto a new person in your life they will likely not want to go on another date.
4. Extra needs
If you demand too much then your date will soon get bored of you and leave. Be aware of your limits and worth and don't ask for too much. If you truly deserve it then they will do it without you having to ask.
5. Drama
Men don't like it. It's useless stress and it usually involves a lot of gossip. Honestly, who likes a person who gossips a lot? Even better, gossips a lot on the first date? Leave these to your girlfriends and people you know better.
6. Impatience
Impatience leads to anger, then unwanted arguments. For example, you're at a restaurant and start complaining about the time it takes the food to arrive, then argue with the waiter. What impression would that leave on your date?
7. Being out of reach
It can be a good technique to not seem desperate, but it can quickly ruin a relationship in progress. Not answering their calls and texts will leave them with a simple thought: "If they don't have enough time for me then it won't work".
8. No ambition
Have your own goals and dreams. If you don't have this and you don't strive for something better or try to better yourself then you won't seem attractive, as this leaves the impression of you not being able to do anything with your life.
9. No passion
This goes for both genders. If you're passionate about something you're able to talk about it for as long as you can and meanwhile you will have a kind of fire in your eyes that can make the right man fall in love with you. This can make you a magnet.
10. Not taking care of yourself
And once again, selfcare comes up. First, you need to love yourself, so that you can be comfortable with another person in your life. This part goes for taking care of your hygiene, clothes, hair. Generally speaking: just look presentable.
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7. Being out of reach
It can be a good technique to not seem desperate, but it can quickly ruin a relationship in progress. Not answering their calls and texts will leave them with a simple thought: "If they don't have enough time for me then it won't work".
8. No ambition
Have your own goals and dreams. If you don't have this and you don't strive for something better or try to better yourself then you won't seem attractive, as this leaves the impression of you not being able to do anything with your life.
9. No passion
This goes for both genders. If you're passionate about something you're able to talk about it for as long as you can and meanwhile you will have a kind of fire in your eyes that can make the right man fall in love with you. This can make you a magnet.
10. Not taking care of yourself
And once again, selfcare comes up. First, you need to love yourself, so that you can be comfortable with another person in your life. This part goes for taking care of your hygiene, clothes, hair. Generally speaking: just look presentable.
What do you think? Tell me in the comments or tweet at me!
Or check out the other Top Lists.
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