If you are one of those people who likes to have fun without strings attached then you need to read this post. There's some crucial information right here and we will also talk about certain situations which you might need to know about. But even if you are just debating becoming friends with benefits with someone... You need to think about whether it's worth it or not. First of all, lot's look at the very obvious benefits when it comes to having someone that you can always hit up with a booty call. Pros For most people, it's the physical aspect. Orgasms are always nice. They make you stress-free and fill you up with happiness hormones that can have an effect on you for up to a couple of hours. How would you not want that all the time? Unfortunately, in most cases, only friends with benefits relationships are the only ones that can provide you with a lot of sex for a long period of time. If you get yourself a boyfriend or girlfriend then it's much di
We all fear one thing in our relationships: betrayal. Emotional and physical.
It doesn't matter if you're the jealous type or not, this slight distrust will always be deep within your heart. Rightfully so, we don't want to waste months or years on someone so worthless. And that is the exact reason why I need to warn all of you about these telltale signs.
Here's how to know he's cheating.
1. Hiding things
The first and most obvious thing you will notice is that your partner will suddenly change his privacy needs. He won't leave his phone around you, he will begin hiding it if he gets a message and most importantly: you will be constantly called jealous if you call him out on it.
The latter is really important. He will turn everything on you and he will try to make you the one to blame.
2. Accusing you of cheating
As weird as it sounds, a cheater will always feel like he's being betrayed too. He will notice the patterns that he has and will always start making assumptions that lead to: "My partner must be cheating!"
Most men who cheat still care about their relationship and they will always feel paranoid. (I know, illogical, but it's still a thing, so watch out for these accusations if your partner is usually not the jealous type.)
3. He has cheated before
I'm a strong believer of "Once a cheater, always a cheater". Mostly because it's true.
Did you know that being a serial cheater can be genetic?
4. You can never reach him
His battery is always dead, he didn't hear his ringtone or simply, he forgot his phone at home (C'mon guys, who does this nowadays?). No matter the excuse, it's always a struggle to reach him and there's never a proper explanation other than the ones mentioned above.
5. You two aren't publicly together
We all know that guy.
"I don't want several hundred people seeing our pictures."
"It's our private thing, why should we share it with everyone else?"
"Social media is awful, I don't like sharing anything there." (But he's sharing other things 24/7...)
Yeah, if you're not Facebook official then you most likely aren't even a girlfriend yet. I'm really sorry to say this, but your online status will definitely define your relationship status.
+1. He's on Tinder
I know, obvious. But some of you all still justify it.
I don't give a crap if it's "an old account" or "he was bored". If your so called boyfriend is messing around on a dating app then that's one step from cheating. Do not try to accept his excuses! It's quite likely that none of them are true.
If he did cheat on you then read my other article: What To Do With A Cheater. I know that it can be hard to accept that someone has betrayed you like that, but there's always a way to heal.
3. He has cheated before
I'm a strong believer of "Once a cheater, always a cheater". Mostly because it's true.
Did you know that being a serial cheater can be genetic?
4. You can never reach him
His battery is always dead, he didn't hear his ringtone or simply, he forgot his phone at home (C'mon guys, who does this nowadays?). No matter the excuse, it's always a struggle to reach him and there's never a proper explanation other than the ones mentioned above.
5. You two aren't publicly together
We all know that guy.
"I don't want several hundred people seeing our pictures."
"It's our private thing, why should we share it with everyone else?"
"Social media is awful, I don't like sharing anything there." (But he's sharing other things 24/7...)
Yeah, if you're not Facebook official then you most likely aren't even a girlfriend yet. I'm really sorry to say this, but your online status will definitely define your relationship status.
+1. He's on Tinder
I know, obvious. But some of you all still justify it.
I don't give a crap if it's "an old account" or "he was bored". If your so called boyfriend is messing around on a dating app then that's one step from cheating. Do not try to accept his excuses! It's quite likely that none of them are true.
If he did cheat on you then read my other article: What To Do With A Cheater. I know that it can be hard to accept that someone has betrayed you like that, but there's always a way to heal.
What do you think? Tell me in the comments or tweet at me.
Or check out the other posts about Dating.
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