If you are one of those people who likes to have fun without strings attached then you need to read this post. There's some crucial information right here and we will also talk about certain situations which you might need to know about. But even if you are just debating becoming friends with benefits with someone... You need to think about whether it's worth it or not. First of all, lot's look at the very obvious benefits when it comes to having someone that you can always hit up with a booty call. Pros For most people, it's the physical aspect. Orgasms are always nice. They make you stress-free and fill you up with happiness hormones that can have an effect on you for up to a couple of hours. How would you not want that all the time? Unfortunately, in most cases, only friends with benefits relationships are the only ones that can provide you with a lot of sex for a long period of time. If you get yourself a boyfriend or girlfriend then it's much di
We all have rough patches and they can last for way too long. Days, weeks, or even months. It exhausts us just enough so that we will want to give up. We will only focus on the pain and sadness. And it will ruin us.
So let me help you through the desperation and lead you towards some hope.
Remember the time you met? How you kinda had a thing for him but wasn't sure? Close your eyes and live through those moments again. See them for the first time again.
Then progress, think about when you first started dating, how your first kiss went, laugh if it was awful and smile if it was great and full of passion. Let yourself feel their lips for the first time again.
Remember all those first times and really think through them. All the things that made you attracted to your partner, every aspect that actually made you stay with them in the first place. Even through tough times.
Now remember the first time you had a disagreement. How did you solve it? How did you feel when you were finally over the problem? How great was it when you were finally able to let yourself love them freely without holding grudges?
You can still sense how it was, right? Like a boulder just fell of your shoulders and heart. Because you didn't want things to be tense between you two, and you didn't want things to turn out this way. But you made it work after all.
And after all this time, you're here again. There's a chance you didn't even argue because you're just so tired of whatever they're doing. Because yes, you've told them a thousand times that you didn't like something, but they didn't listen. And it has happened again, so you might have just stopped bothering.
I'm only guessing, but you're probably just laying down, trying to think of any reason to stay, even though it's becoming insanely hard to do so. And I feel you. I've been at that point too, when even though things are only becoming worse and worse you're still trying to make it work. And trust me, it will.
Because you're devoted, you still haven't stopped caring after everything you've been put through and that says a lot. Instead of immediately giving up you came here to look for answers. You decided to fight more, to try once more. And a thousand more times if necessary. Because you love them enough to not let go. And that's what matters.
Now get up and talk it through once more, maybe this time they will understand. Communicate more, avoid these situations in the first place.
I hope you don't have to come back to this post. But if you do, then read it once more.
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