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Everyone has to start somewhere, and the same goes for dating.
Nobody is born with all the knowledge on how a relationship works, which is why we need to learn before we can succeed at keeping a partner we're happy with.
So, here's what a newbie should know about dating.
First of all, let's define what the dating phase is about.
It's core purpose is getting to know one another with the intention of staying together long-term. It's about learning how the other person works and how they can fit into your life. Which is why a lot of people lie when they first begin dating. Because they think they're not good enough.
One thing to keep in mind: if you're not looking for a one night stand, short term partner or an FWB, then you absolutely cannot lie during the dating phase. You shouldn't in other cases either, but this will screw you over big time if you're planning on staying with someone.
You might think you're not good enough. Not pretty, thin, funny, kind or a good person.
But that's okay!
There will be someone out there who will find you the most amazing person in the world. Who will see the stars in your eyes and will tell you all about it any chance they get.
Or if not, then there will be someone who loves you enough to want to help you change all this. Who will support you through hell so you will become your perfect self.
You need to accept how you are and not try to fool your date, that's the only way you can find a long term partner.
But you still need to impress your date.
You can do that by several small things, all of which are insanely important. Especially on a first date.
Pick comfortable, but fitting clothes. A lot of people think it's somehow okay to make their first impression on someone while wearing a shirt that's two sizes bigger than them. Please don't be one of them, it makes you look like a slob. Instead, going for something between casual and formal might be the best idea.
Also, pay attention to your odor. There's nothing more awkward for your date than catching a whiff of something nasty, then realizing it's you. The solution is simple: take a shower before you go on the date, or use either deodorant or perfume. Careful with the last two.
I could tell you a little bit about the discussion that's going to go down between you, but I can't help you with that. It's something you need to figure out and adjust your social skills to. All I can give you is one tip. Don't make it awkward!
So, let's get to the part where you've already had one or more successful dates with that person. Congrats! Now you only need to make it work!
Building a relationship can be different for everyone, after all, it's between two completely different people. It's complicated as hell, so let me give you the quick tips to help you through it.
But you still need to impress your date.
You can do that by several small things, all of which are insanely important. Especially on a first date.
Pick comfortable, but fitting clothes. A lot of people think it's somehow okay to make their first impression on someone while wearing a shirt that's two sizes bigger than them. Please don't be one of them, it makes you look like a slob. Instead, going for something between casual and formal might be the best idea.
Also, pay attention to your odor. There's nothing more awkward for your date than catching a whiff of something nasty, then realizing it's you. The solution is simple: take a shower before you go on the date, or use either deodorant or perfume. Careful with the last two.
I could tell you a little bit about the discussion that's going to go down between you, but I can't help you with that. It's something you need to figure out and adjust your social skills to. All I can give you is one tip. Don't make it awkward!
So, let's get to the part where you've already had one or more successful dates with that person. Congrats! Now you only need to make it work!
Building a relationship can be different for everyone, after all, it's between two completely different people. It's complicated as hell, so let me give you the quick tips to help you through it.
- Stay honest (but keep the white lies)
- Be there for them
- If you argue always reach a solution
- Stay loyal
- Keep the spontaneity
- Explore each other (physically too)
- Everyone says "Oh you shouldn't have!" to gifts, don't believe your partner in this case
- Have a hobby together
- Spend a short while apart, so you don't grow dependent
- Adore each other!
I think that's pretty much all you need to do when you first begin dating, but tell me in the comments or tweet at me if I missed anything!
Or check out the other posts about Dating.
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