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A lot of people think that every relationship has arguments, even worse, they should have arguments! Now, I understand that not having a single problem might be a sign of a secretive relationship, but that isn't always the case.
However, most people do argue, mostly because we're humans and we don't like to change our mind.
And that would be all okay, but unfortunately, we aren't taught how to do so, in a respectful way. Which is actually the most important part, as simple manners can change the outcome of the argument.
So, how do should we fight?
No shouting
Some people use their loudness as a weapon, some use the absence of it. Either way, a fight is only fair when both parties keep their voice to a normal level.
Also, this helps you stay calm, saving both of you a lot of stress and anger.
Keep slurs out of it
This one is obvious. No matter what happens, try to avoid calling each other things. It will be damaging in both the short and long run.
Let them talk
An argument is about the both of you, you have your own opinion, they have theirs. Let them express it and most importantly, listen! You might understand what's been going on their mind when they did something that upset you.
You aren't right
Okay, you might be, but still. Don't assume, until you know it for sure. Listen, think, remain calm and then decide who was in the wrong.
And don't be scared to apologize.
Say sorry
If you make a mistake, admit it. Be mature, so you can resolve the problem sooner. It might hurt your ego, but if you want to maintain a healthy relationship, then it's the first thing you need to let go of.
If your ego seems to be getting in the way of things, then click here to find out how to solve it.
What do you think? Tell me in the comments or tweet at me.
Or check out the other posts about Communication.
And that would be all okay, but unfortunately, we aren't taught how to do so, in a respectful way. Which is actually the most important part, as simple manners can change the outcome of the argument.
So, how do should we fight?
No shouting
Some people use their loudness as a weapon, some use the absence of it. Either way, a fight is only fair when both parties keep their voice to a normal level.
Also, this helps you stay calm, saving both of you a lot of stress and anger.
Keep slurs out of it
This one is obvious. No matter what happens, try to avoid calling each other things. It will be damaging in both the short and long run.
Let them talk
An argument is about the both of you, you have your own opinion, they have theirs. Let them express it and most importantly, listen! You might understand what's been going on their mind when they did something that upset you.
You aren't right
Okay, you might be, but still. Don't assume, until you know it for sure. Listen, think, remain calm and then decide who was in the wrong.
And don't be scared to apologize.
Say sorry
If you make a mistake, admit it. Be mature, so you can resolve the problem sooner. It might hurt your ego, but if you want to maintain a healthy relationship, then it's the first thing you need to let go of.
If your ego seems to be getting in the way of things, then click here to find out how to solve it.
What do you think? Tell me in the comments or tweet at me.
Or check out the other posts about Communication.
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