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Friends With Benefits: Is It Really Worth It?

If you are one of those people who likes to have fun without strings attached then you need to read this post. There's some crucial information right here and we will also talk about certain situations which you might need to know about. But even if you are just debating becoming friends with benefits with someone... You need to think about whether it's worth it or not. First of all, lot's look at the very obvious benefits when it comes to having someone that you can always hit up with a booty call. Pros For most people, it's the physical aspect. Orgasms are always nice. They make you stress-free and fill you up with happiness hormones that can have an effect on you for up to a couple of hours. How would you not want that all the time? Unfortunately, in most cases, only friends with benefits relationships are the only ones that can provide you with a lot of sex for a long period of time. If you get yourself a boyfriend or girlfriend then it's much di

The Top 4 Luxurious Valentine's Day Gifts

Yes, by luxurious I mean expensive and shiny. It's not something we'd buy without a reason, mostly because they are quite costly. But every once in a while, we deserve this kind of luxury. So here's a quick message to the men reading this: this list might not fit your wallet, in which case you're still welcome to read through and choose something that you think your spouse would like and bookmark it. 1. Tiffany Co - Diamond Heart Necklace I'm going to be honest, this is my favorite one. For a reason. Not only does it look gorgeous, it's made out of 18K gold, which is quite impressive, I'd say. It makes an amazing accessory to any event and the choice of your makeup will barely matter, as anything is a great choice next to it. Personally,    I find it a bit pricey, but it really does seem to be worth it, truly an exceptional necklace. 2. Chimento - Diamond Eternity White Gold Ring I haven't seen anything this beautiful in a good

The Top 3 Reasons Your Obsession With Alphas Must Stop

Quick caution: this article is about guys who are under 30 (or are barely above it, you'll know the difference). Ah, yes. The alpha male. Full of testosterone and charm. The person we imagine when someone says "dream guy" is close to an alpha male, this is a ripped bad-boy who is a bit dangerous, but not really. Who's dominant, but not too dominant for our likes. Who is ambitious but doesn't focus on their career. And of course, great in bed, gets all the ladies, but is still loyal. Sorry to shatter the dreams, but unfortunately this doesn't exist. And even if it does, the chances of meeting this dream guy is not very realistic, instead, we get the alpha. This phrase remained because of only one thing: it shows dominance. In today's society, this is basically everything. It determines your confidence, dating successes, maybe even your salary. But what an alpha male really offers is not even half as good as real dominance. Let's start

How To Write The Most Romantic Love Letter Ever

So far, I've talked about love letters in several posts and it has a serious reason: it's too rare. It's literally one of the simplest ways you can show your love, while also being really effective. For some reason, people think this is cheesy, it's overdone, movies and books regularly choose this type of thing to express romantic feelings. Well, let me tell you something: in the real world barely anyone gives love letters anymore. Quite sad, really. At this point you might be thinking about actually writing one. That's awesome, I support it all the way, go ahead! your partner will appreciate it a lot more than any other object, as this one says: "I didn't just think of you for a second to buy something, but I spent a lot of time on expressing my emotions towards you." So, what do you need? Grab yourself a laptop or computer, write the draft. Then, depending on your taste, you can either print it, or write it down by hand. If you choos

8 Amazing Date Activities That Will Make Your Relationship More Exciting

Sometimes the usual stuff doesn't work when you're a couple of months into a relationship. A fancy dinner and a movie won't cut it. At this point, you need something that encourages both of you to be more intimate with each other. The best way to do this is spice things up when it comes to spending time together. Get out of your comfort zone a bit and try something new. 1. Road trip This one can be a bit costly, but when you think about it, there are a lot of opportunities when it comes to random travelling. Exploring the world, being outside the city and seeing new places is a great way to remove yourself from your usual setting. Also, if this little adventure of yours takes more days then you can choose to put up a tent and sit around a campfire at night. This sets the mood for a deep discussion, so you can get to know your partner even more. 2. Bake It's a little cliche, but you can have a lot of fun while doing it. Playing around with the ingr

What You Need To Know About Long Distance Relationships

LDRs (Long Distance Relationships) are becoming more and more common in today's society. This is (obviously) because of the internet, and the fact that people are less likely to be reserved while talking to people online. This creates several problems, but more on that later. Although, there are still situations in which the partners get separated by distance (and not because of the internet). These occurrences are a tiny bit easier to deal with, but still heartbreaking to the couple. Thankfully, whenever this happens, the two halves are usually able to make things work, as they had already known each other before they started dating. So, what do you need to know? In my experience, it doesn't take much more dedication and effort to make a long distance relationship work, than a normal one. It still requires loyalty, time and energy, the main difference is the physical intimacy, which is impossible to replace. The lack of touch is the main cause of the end of t

Is He The Right One? - The Ultimate Checklist

Some people go with the flow when choosing the partner - and that's perfectly fine, but when you have to decide whether your current significant other will be a part of your life forever or not, there's a way to go about it. This checklist was put together to help you see things a bit deeper in the relationship, so that you can make the right call. It was designed to make people realize the problems that might arise later on and to see what they're worth in their partnership. Although, I have to warn you: there are times when these things don't apply and you should not throw away your relationship if you can't relate with every single point. Both of you know what the other one feels exactly There's peace (occasional arguments are nothing to worry about) No mind games You plan your future with him He's just as much a friend as a boyfriend He says "I love you" regularly You feel safe next to him He has goals Date nights aren

How To Get Closer To Your Distant Partner

There are times when you might feel like your relationship is not the same anymore and the spark is gone. I know this all too well, so don't be worried if this is the case, it happens to even the best of us. There are remedies for it and they can do wonders. Maybe the bond between you two will be even better after it. After all, you can always reheat a relationship after it has gone cold. But first of all, you need to decide what you want to do. Some people simply decide to break it off at this point, not realizing that this is the part where relationships become stronger. I advise you to communicate and say how you feel about the situation, although this might make your partner feel afraid about the future of you two. In this case you need to be outright and say your intentions.  Unfortunately, when this fading happens there's not much you can do and communication is the most effective way to deal with it. But at this point I have to let go of your hand, so

Top Valentine's Day Gift Ideas (For Guys)

If you're tired of hearing the same ideas every single year and you desire something more, then you've come to the right place. I have just the thing for you, projects and items that will 100% sure make your partner happy. But first of all, you need to know your significant other's love language, this way you can give them what their heart truly wants. If you haven't figured it that then click  here .  Love letter This one has already been mentioned on  5 Things You Must Do In The Dating Phase ,  but it's incredibly effective. Let me emphasize the cuteness  factor. Literally anything goes if you want to give your spouse a love letter. Memories, feelings, small things you love about them. The main thing I hear whenever I mention this, is that it's cheesy and overdone. It really isn't. It's actually very uncommon among adults, so use this as a method to really  surprise them. The King and Queen Okay, this is used a bit more often, but

5 Things You Must Do In The Dating Phase

At this point in your relationship everything is perfect and pink. Which is why it's easy to get lost in it and be disappointed later on, because "the spark disappeared". You need to see things clearly when you begin dating and think rationally. But, mainly, you need to enjoy yourself, while dating. I might've come off as a strategist, talking about the matter, but the main point of dating is to get to know another human being that you may want to spend your entire life with. Experiment and learn your own ways. 1. Modesty This is a key point in this phase. Cover yourself a little too much, leave something for the imagination. It grabs the attention of your partner more and they won't focus on your cleavage instead of talking with you. Also, later on you will see every single inch of the other person, so keep the modesty as long as you can. Curiosity is your power. 2. Love letters I don't get why people don't do this anymore. It'

How To Appear More Attractive

We know, looks aren't everything. But what you need to admit is that they are the first thing that anyone else sees and that it gives the first impression. Which is why you need some trips and tricks to appear more attractive than you actually might be, to seduce everyone coming your way. Or just your sweetheart, that's even better. The thing is: none of these will ever work if you don't rock it. So if you go out there, be as confident as you can be. It will be one of your best qualities, as it already gives a really good first impression of you. Now let's head on to those tips. Look healthy There's no need to be a size zero. You don't need abs either. What matters most is how healthy you look. The human brain is wired to find mates who are healthier more attractive, as they are able to produce better offspring. But what does healthy look like? There isn't a definitive way for it, but my main advice for it is to be proportionate. This

The Dice Game

I've found a pretty interesting game for you. All it requires is one or two dice. And the ability to throw them. It can be a good way to foreplay or simply just to pass time. Enjoy! Will you try this? Tell me in the comments or tweet at me ! Or check out the other  Random Ideas .

Are You Just A Backup Plan?

We've all been in the friendzone, it's a cruel place for nice people. When you get here you usually feel like your crush's therapist or relationship counselor, because they always talk to you about their problems. The bad part about it: it's intentional. They keep you around because they like the looks and that someone listens to them no matter what. So ladies, try to realize if you're actually just a backup plan. Spend 2019 with those who you love and who reciprocate this feeling. Don't waste your time on men who don't deserve you and don't even make an effort for your relationship. Let this year be good to you and avoid any people who do these following things as they might affect your life and mentality in a very negative way. Last second He always calls or texts you at the last minute before he plans to meet. For example, it's Friday night, you already have a program when he messages you that he currently doesn't have anything to

The Top 10 Things That Will Scare Your Date Away

(Remember: this post is useful if you have a male date and you're a woman.) Let's admit: we love to go overboard when it comes to impressing someone from the opposite gender and there's nothing wrong with it, but it can very easily scare them away. So here they are, the top 10 mistakes we make when trying to seduce men: 1. Too much perfume Do NOT put too much perfume on. It's one thing that your date will get nauseated, but other people around you will too. The most amount of sprays is two. One on your neck, one on your wrist (then rub your wrists together so it sticks there as well). 2. Too much makeup  We've heard this one a lot, natural is better, blablabla... Thankfully, if you love makeup there's still a way to express yourself by using it and not go overboard. Today's trends dictate the "natural look". Which is technically still a lot if you think about it, but now it isn't as exaggerated. Just don't use too much

3 Key Steps For A Successful Marriage

You may have just got married or perhaps you're already past your 10th anniversary, or you could be single. Whichever it might be, you came here because you feel like you need help or some tips and I'm glad you visited this site, because I have exactly what you need. Here are the most useful things you need in marriage: The shock-wave Most people make one critical mistake when they get into a relationship or when they get married. Push everyone else away. This usually occurs because these people desperately want their bond o last and for some reason they think that by focusing all of their attention to their significant other it will last longer. If you're one of these people then sorry to break it to you: you're doing more harm than good. If you suffocate your partner with love they are more likely to leave (take the word suffocate strongly, I don't mean that giving a ton of love to the other will lead to a break up or a divorce). It makes you look des

What To Do With A Cheater?

If this post only consisted of my own opinion then you would only need 10 seconds to read it. Mostly because all of this text would simply be: Get rid of him.  But I've looked into the matter a bit further, so I'll try to give you more advice. Both partners are required for the cheating to happen, a healthy relationship doesn't make either half feel the desire to go to anyone else. Hence, you can't only blame the cheater, even if you really want to. If you really want to continue with the relationship then all I can advise is communication (like always). Talk through it, ask them what they need from you and give it to them. If it happens more than once, the likeliness of them committing this type of betrayal again is very high. This is usually the breaking point. Although psychologists and therapists suggest trying once more after a cheating occurs in a relationship, the chance of it actually working is quite low. Scientifically , genes can be blamed

What You Should Do For Your Man To Keep Him Happy

Most women tend to underestimate the amount of love and care their partner needs. If you want to keep your relationship long and healthy I can give you a couple of tips on how to do it. But first you need to accept a couple of things: His ego is just as fragile as yours, maybe even more Men are allowed to get emotional as well If he does something for you then you can use one of these tips to "repay" him Time For some weird reason women think it's okay to ignore their partner after some time. This leads to the fading of emotion, which is quite difficult to repair. Remember to give attention to them and listen when they have something to say. Masculinity We gotta admit: men want to feel manly. If you want to boost their confidence the easiest way is to act like the weak woman and ask him to do something instead of you.  Afterwards shower him with compliments and tell him how strong be is. Don't abuse this though, it works best when he's feeling

The Big Question: Who's The One?

This is probably the question which keeps people up at night if they are worried about their relationships. Who am I going to spend my life with? Will I ever meet that one person? Will they be perfect? Well, first let me clarify: you do not need perfection. It gets boring after some time and you will feel your own imperfections as if they were worse than in reality. You will try to improve yourself with little to no success and it will drag you down. But perfection is basically impossible to find anyway, because let's be honest, a perfect person simply can't exist. You need someone that fits . Someone that completes you. A few common things between you two is all you need, after that the only thing that matters is proper communication. But you were made to believe that there's one  person that was made just for you. I'm sorry to say, but that's incredibly false. The only thing that will make two people compatible is how they handle their disagree

How To Deal With Heartbreak

I'm talking about true heartbreak. This is one of those situations where no advice will help for sure. There will be times when you feel desperate and lonely. My way of overcoming might be just right for you though. Acceptance First of all, accept the fact that they're gone. Throw the idea of them coming back out the window, learn to be alone. Most people tend to focus on loneliness and that's what keeps them down, don't be one of them. Let yourself feel the pain Once you do this you will likely be even sadder, but it's alright, it's part of the healing process. This is the part where you lay down, eat sweets and cry. And don't feel bad about that you're this way, because now the way only leads up. The next couple of days or maybe even weeks will be miserable, but you need to get through them. Go to work/school, exercise, eat properly and take care of yourself. Never, ever check your ex's social media. Spare yourself the trouble and f

Lessons Learned - Red Flags

A red flag is referred to anything in the beginning of a relationship which signifies danger in long term. Most of them are obvious, but some are hidden, waiting for the moment to strike and ruin the entire bond built up between the partners. Don't take me wrong, everything can be worked on, if you find one of these in your significant other, you can always talk through it, but be wary. After a couple of relationships I've become quite sensitive to red flags. Especially after dating a few... troublesome guys. Which is why I'm writing this: to warn you. So read these paragraphs carefully, as they are real life experiences and not rewritten, overused stories. Manipulation Okay, this is obvious, there's the "I will hurt myself." or "I won't meet you next time.". But the real problem begins when these are subtle and not so obnoxious. Some people put the relationship at risk just to keep their partner, so we can phrase it this way &

Top 10 Dating Ideas

Sometimes the usual things bore us and this is still a fact in relationships. Which is why you need to do exciting things once in a while, to keep the love flaming. This is my list for all those couples who have no idea how or where to go on their next date. Remember, this is put together according to my own opinion, so it might not be perfect for you. However, if you think that your idea should be included comment it. 1. Go to a class together Learning something new boosts your brain activity and helps you get out of your comfort zone. It can be connected to one of your or your partner's hobbies, but it can be something completely random. 2. Exercise Okay, this one is a bit obvious. But it does help. It's especially a good idea if you want your partner to get in shape, as you can use this as "just an exciting activity". 3. Laser tag If you haven't played it yet, I suggest it highly, doesn't matter who's with you. Although, the

The love languages

The main problem in relationships is usually the fact that the partners communicate their love differently. Currently when we talk about love languages, there are 5 that are mainly used. People normally have 2 favourites of these, so you might want to experiment when you learn your other half's love language. Gifts For many of us, flowers and chocolate mean the most. Afterall, it signifies that at one point during the day our partner thought of us and wanted to make our day a little better. As long as it's not about money, this has one of the biggest emotional background. Touch The feeling of someone else's skin against yours can release tension and make the brain produce a happiness hormone. Which is why many people express how they feel about others by hugging, kissing or just simply caressing them. Affirmation Complimenting your other half may be the way to go for some. It can be anything from a simple "You look nice today" to "It wa